When Only One Shows Up

It can be really tough and discouraging in youth ministry when only one or two students show up.  It doesn't matter if it is a service, discipleship class, or a fun event.  It is not only hard on you, the leader, but also on the students.  The fact is you are there for the one, not the masses.

Here are a some things to keep in mind:

• Students feel weird when they are the only ones there.  Make that moment about building a relationship with that student.
• If you planned a lot of teaching, feel free to scrap it.  Yep, scrap it.  Help the student feel comfortable.  Play a video game, watch a movie, or (if the parent is okay with it) grab some ice cream.
• Whatever you do....don't cancel!  Cancelling expresses that you don't care to invest your time unless there are lots of listeners.

Though it may be hard on your feelings, it can be great for your ministry and your relationship with the individual.

How have you handled the discouragement?  What have you done when only one shows up?