Our youth ministry (EPIC) went to Rock the Universe at Universal Studios in Orlando, FL. We had an awesome time, but I learned a lot at this event. I love roller coasters, but I really don't like roller coaster teenage drama.
Jim Gaffigan jokes that if you ever want to spend a lot of money to sweat, get tired, hear your kids whine, and stand in lines all day...then go to Disney. It certainly was not that bad. I was actually really surprised how unifying the event was overall for our students.
We drove 8 hours, checked into a hotel, headed to Universal. I was tired by hour 3 of driving. Here is how I not only survived but thrived.
- It is not about the rides, but the relationships with teens. Make it more about them.
- Play ridiculous road games or make some up. We had a blast and it started the trip off right.
- Pray...a lot. Together, alone, in your sleep. Just pray.
- Enjoy the music even if you don't care for the artist. The fact that teens are listening to God's message is awesome.
- Someone will complain, or get sick, or both. That's okay, they will get over it. Hopefully. Just point out the positive and distract them with a free drink. Pray with them.
- You will want to go home before they do. I believe they call it .... sacrifice.
- Have meals together and talk about their favorite experiences or their worst. Both can be fun, right?
- Lastly, be the example to follow in word, conduct, faith and screaming on roller coasters.
1 Thess 5:14 CEV "My friends, we beg you to warn anyone who isn't living right. Encourage anyone who feels left out, help all who are weak, and be patient with everyone."
Clearly, Paul took teens to amusement parks. I wonder what his favorite roller coaster was? How do you survive and thrive on these types of events?
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